New mum's horror at husband's 'porn addiction' after Pornhub connects to car Bluetooth while driving with baby son

Apr 16, 2018
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A woman has revealed her horror at discovering the full extent of her husband’s ‘porn addiction’ after PornHub connected to Bluetooth while they were driving with their one-month-old son.

The fed-up 24-year-old said her partner watches it almost every day and even sneaks into the bathroom early on weekends to log on while ignoring his four-month-old son crying nearby.

She shared her story on Mumsnet, saying she fears her husband is addicted to the videos after discovering he has watched them on communal mobile phones at his company – which he runs alongside his parents.

The desperate mum said she is even considering a divorce as her partner refuses to have sex with her and she fears she will never match up to the women on screen.

She said he ‘spent 50% of last year on x-rated websites, sometimes up to three times a day’ and at their worst refused to speak to her and just expected her to do housework.

The fed-up 24-year-old revealed her partner watches porn almost every day (file pic)
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Referring to his use at work, she wrote: “Over the weekend he admitted that one of the times he watched it on the work phone, he took it into the toilet to watch at about 5pm – when all of his workers were in the office.

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“I always thought that it’d be safe in the day as he wouldn’t do it when other people were there… guess I was wrong.

“Also, he is using phones that his workers use during the day. If they find that sort of thing it doesn’t look very professional and would be highly embarrassing, for him and me.

“I now worry all day when I’m with baby alone as it turns out he doesn’t care if anyone is there or not.”

In her original post she explained the moment it all came to a head: “Exactly a month after (my son’s) birth, we were going out and his phone connected to his car’s Bluetooth and it came up with PornHub.

The woman says her partner watches it at work
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“Cue an awkaward conversation about it all, anyway, long story short, I went onto (my husband’s) phone that night to see what was so interesting, and he had deleted his history.

“Upon doing further digging, I found around 40+ porn videos on his history.

“In the past we have barely had sex as he was always too ‘tired’ or some other excuse, so now I feel like he did want sex just not with me.

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“Anyway, he promised not to do it again as we came to the conclusion that it was really affecting our sex life.

“Things were okay for the first month and then I got suspicious, and I checked the phones that they use at work.

The desperate mum said she is even considering a divorce (file pic)
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“There were porn videos that I knew DH has watched in the past.

“Confronted him and he eventually admitted it was him.

“When I had asked him about whether he was watching it again, he denied it (he has sworn not to just so that we could repair our sex life).

“The worst bit is, was that he swore on our newborn son’s life that he hadn’t watched it again.

“I just feel like I can’t trust him now. If it was me, I would avoid any porn as I knew it was really hurting my OH, and I’d try to get our sex life back on track.

The couple were going out when his phone connected to his car’s Bluetooth and it came up with Pornhub (file pic)

“He’s 25 and I’m 24, so it’s not as if we are past our prime.

“I’m worried he is addicted to this porn and that I’ll never measure up.”

As scores of people rush to give their advice, she also tells them he has Asperger’s was bullied as a child and claims his mum was addicted to drugs and he was neglected.

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Many people sided with the woman, and some suggested she leave her partner.

One commented: If my other half watches porn occasionally then I don’t care, AS LONG as he we are maintaining a regular, happy sex life together.

“If he was watching it most days and also turning me down for sex all the time then i’d be livid.

“I’d feel totally rejected and insecure.”

Another wrote: “I have quite a bit of experience with this issue, sadly. I’m older than you and have been married more than 25 years and this issue has blighted my relationship.

“In the early years, I would confront him but nothing fundamentally changed.

“Over the years I began to feel less and less desirable.

“The lack of interest from my husband, his preference for porn, affected my self-confidence and my belief in my own attractiveness.

“Then one day in my late 40’s I ‘woke-up’. I decided that I was not going to my grave never having sex again.

“To cut a long story short, I had an affair. That affair did me more good than I can tell you. I am a different person. However, it also did more harm, at least in the short term. I told my husband in January that I am divorcing him.”

Another offered: “I think because it has gone on for so long he probably just thinks you are a nag but in my book a relationship is a team and you both have to do things to make each other happy, not just suit yourself, esp when you know it hurts the other one.”

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